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are now on Facebook. Link to us at
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(I
couldn't use /davidmurphy because it was already taken)
UPCOMING
SPEED DATING EVENTS
25
- 39 (1971 - 1990)
***MONDAY
6TH SEPTEMBER - SPEED DATING IN SYDNEY FOR AGES 35 - 45 At
our new venue: the very modern and revamped Ruby's Bar at 68
Victoria Rd (between Gordon and Evans Sts) Rozelle. Catch any
500+ bus from Town Hall and get off at the fourth bus stop after
the Anzac Bridge and walk to the hotel. If driving, park in Maney
or Quirk Sts and walk up Victoria Rd.
***
If you are 30 - 45 and only want to meet people who are around
your age then this speed dating is for you. Come along as the
people on the night will be 30 - 45 or wanting to meet 30 – 45.
Click
here
to
book online now and specify for which event. (If you have given
your details a few times before there is no need to give them all
again).
Click
here
to
be able to come to events for no charge.
Click
here
for
current numbers and gender ratios.
30
- 44 (1965 - 1985)
***MONDAY
13TH SEPTEMBER - SPEED DATING IN SYDNEY FOR AGES 40 +
At
our new venue: the very modern and revamped Ruby's Bar at 68
Victoria Rd (between Gordon and Evans Sts) Rozelle. Catch any
500+ bus from Town Hall and get off at the fourth bus stop after
the Anzac Bridge and walk to the hotel. If driving, park in Maney
or Quirk Sts and walk up Victoria Rd.
***
If you are 40 - 50 and only want to meet people who are around
your age then this speed dating is for you. Come along as the
people on the night will be 40 - 50 or wanting to meet 40 – 50.
Click
here
to
book online now and specify for which event. (If you have given
your details a few times before there is no need to give them all
again).
Click
here
to
be able to come to events for no charge.
Click
here
for
current numbers and gender ratios.
45
– 55 (1953 -1967)
***MONDAY
20TH SEPTEMBER - SPEED DATING IN SYDNEY FOR AGES 45 + At
our new venue: the very modern and revamped Ruby's Bar at 68
Victoria Rd (between Gordon and Evans Sts) Rozelle. Catch any
500+ bus from Town Hall and get off at the fourth bus stop after
the Anzac Bridge and walk to the hotel. If driving, park in Maney
or Quirk Sts and walk up Victoria Rd.
***
If you are 45 - 55 and only want to meet people who are around
your age then this speed dating is for you. Come along as the
people on the night will be 45 - 55 or wanting to meet 45 – 55.
Click
here
to
book online now and specify for which event. (If you have given
your details a few times before there is no need to give them all
again).
Click
here
to
be able to come to events for no charge.
Click
here
for
current numbers and gender ratios.
50+
(< 1962) (50 or above)
***MONDAY
27TH SEPTEMBER - SPEED DATING IN SYDNEY FOR AGES 50 + At
our new venue: the very modern and revamped Ruby's Bar at 68
Victoria Rd (between Gordon and Evans Sts) Rozelle. Catch any
500+ bus from Town Hall and get off at the fourth bus stop after
the Anzac Bridge and walk to the hotel. If driving, park in Maney
or Quirk Sts and walk up Victoria Rd.
***
If you are 50 + and only want to meet people who are around your
age then this speed dating is for you. Come along as the people
on the night will be 50+ or wanting to meet 50+.
Click
here
to
book online now and specify for which event. (If you have given
your details a few times before there is no need to give them all
again).
Click
here
to
be able to come to events for no charge.
Click
here
for
current numbers and gender ratios.
Go to the bookings
+ ratio page to see how many are
currently booked in for any of the dates and to see what the
current balance is of girls and guys.
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Speed
dating in Sydney is for singles, separated or divorced and
available people seeking friendships, relationships, passion and
romance with a new partner or perfect match. RSVP and book now
and pay on the night (you can pay on the night by Visa or
Mastercard if you wish).
We
have Speed Dating on Monday nights so that if you have broken up
over the weekend you can come along on a Monday night to find a
new partner / lover / relationship straightaway - and of course
you get the results on the night.
Numbers
are limited to the first 12 girls and the first 12 guys who book.
Arrival time is 7.00pm for 7.15pm start and the dating goes till
8.45pm. Buy your own drinks at the hotel. Bring a pen. It may be
a good idea to make up some of your own questions, about 5 to 10
to ask although there will be a questions
sheet provided for you to work off which you are welcome to
keep.
How
it works:
This
is different – you won’t have read this sort of thing before
– this is for the real spontaneous fun - and serious –
people. Players beware unless you both are - then all is OK.
Our
system is simple. Everyone has a number: all the girls get to be
even and all the guys are odd as we say. During the evening you
simply write down on as many slips as you like the numbers of the
ones you fancy and would like to follow up on. Your number goes
in the left circle, in the Your Number circle, and their number
goes in the right circle, the Their Number circle. Please also
put both your name and their name in the respective circles as
this makes it easier for me at the end and you will remember the
names better. At the end I collect everyone’s slips and
separate out the two way matches where for example 5 chose 8 and
8 chose 5. When we have two reciprocal selections such as those
we have a match. For maximum impact upon both of you your
selections should not be discussed. You should keep them secret
because then when you do get a match, if you get a match, it
makes quite an impression on you. And of course on our nights you
get your matches straightaway at the end so you can immediately
make plans as to what to do next. Since you’ve both declared a
sincere interest in getting to know each other better it tends to
be a very powerful process especially when you get immediate
results. If you have discussed picking each other the result may
not have as much impact upon you and is less than what it could
have been if it had been totally pure so keep it discreet. You
can tell them to pick you but if that is said to you don’t let
the other person know if you actually have picked them, although
you could tell them to pick you too but don’t say if you
actually have done so and don’t pick them unless you really
mean it. When you get your match/s start making immediate plans
or have some plans in mind. Either stay back together for drinks,
or have an instant dinner date there and then or go off to get to
know each other better as you have both picked each other and
want each other.
A
big attraction with our system where you get your matches on the
night is that for some like-minded people who want their matches
straightaway this allows them to go off together and spend the
night together and I encourage you to do so if you are so minded
as it a wonderful way to get to know someone intimately. If you
have it in mind to spend the night with someone you really fancy
who has matched with you you might say “if we match I have left
the whole night free to spend quality time with the person who
really really likes me so that we can really become acquainted as
intensive friends – that will prove to you I am happy to show I
really like you if you are ready and ready to do the same for me”
or “ to show you I am serious if you pick me and I really
really like you I am happy and ready to spend the night with to
show you I am serious – but first I have a few little
conditions and disqualifications which I will discuss later”
(see below).
It
is however suggested that if you are going to spend the night
with your match you should beforehand lock in what you are going
to do together on the Friday and Saturday nights following or
over the weekend. It is advisable to secure these
mini-commitments first (so maybe stop off for coffee) so your
night together will be completely honourable and not just an
deceptive one night stand. If your match will not commit to
Friday and Saturday you may have just a player and a time waster
and someone not really available so you should reconsider if you
are going to spend the night with them. You will feel much more
relaxed if Friday and Saturday are locked in the diary – yours
and theirs – so bring it with you and expect them to bring
theirs and write the dates in too.
Of
course, if you don’t want to spend the night with them you just
say “that won’t be happening, I don’t do that” or “not
tonight, soon. I want to meet you again for coffee first and then
we will plan the weekend so bring your diary and we’ll do all
that first, so just be happy to wait a while. When everything’s
in the diary, yours too, I’ll know you are serious - just wait
for the weekend, honey, it will be really good - you don’t have
anyone else, do you, so you’ll be with me, all weekend and on
that weekend before anything else happens we’ll plan the next
week out too.” Remember the purpose of each date is to arrange
the next 2 or so dates and when you have those mini-commitments
you can proceed to other activities. (Hint: get them to book the
restaurant for a dinner on the weekend in their name (ring the
restaurant to check that they have) so that if they don’t turn
up the restaurant can chase them for the money. If you’re
really game get a deposit off them by saying “guys always
double cross me so give me $100 for the dinner and then I’ll
know you are serious. If you didn’t read what David wrote then
you miss out tonight honey, don’t make the same mistake next
time. I was so hot for you tonight but you’re starting to blow
it. Us girls always do our little tests so we get the best and
when we’re sold then WOW ! Pass all the little tests and I’ll
make you so glad you did. Impress me and make me happy and you’ll
be very very happy.” Have fun. Of course always remember to put
the requisite precautionary steps in place such as
mini-commitments and have ready the disqualification options and
of course remember this is only for those who are comfortable
with quick decisions. Failure to do so could constitute
recklessness. Many people like more time but if the arousal is
there and mutual why block the transmissions and not proceed? If
you want more ideas ask me. I have some more real shockers for
the girls to use which I can’t print here, two or three in
particular when you have some time).
However,
be advised, with our system although you get your match/s on the
night you can get more than one match and then you may have an
interesting problem but one that is worth having and solving –
and it seems to take many by complete surprize – “two or
three or more matches, what do I do now??” You will have to be
a little more discreet in some cases and if doing the overnight
thing work out how you’re going to navigate it. Some won’t
mind or care but a good idea is just to say you‘re going to
stay back with the group and keep chatting and maybe have dinner
as about half usually do. You will have to play it by ear if you
don’t want it known that you have more than one match - you
will have to be more diplomatic. If you only get one match then
things are more straightforward but more good matches are always
worth having. A suggestion is to get all the mobile phone numbers
and leave and five minutes later ring your favourite and tell
them to meet you at a certain place or their place to chat and
plan and then go on for the night - again have somewhere in mind.
When
you achieved a satisfactory result why not email me your story of
what happened with any advice and I’ll post it.
How
it works: Risk free ! Just have an optional dinner which
for us is only $12.90 before, during or after the speed dating
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give an optional donation to cover our expenses depending on how
it works out for you and who you match with! Donate what you pay
elsewhere or not at all – it all depends what its worth to you
! (For those who just walk out on everyone part way through and
muck up the numbers there is a $30 early departure fee.)
You
can make as many selections as you like and you can even put down
“all” if you want to discover all the ones with very good
taste who chose you - as even if you aren't attracted to them you
may have overlooked some people in making your choices and so may
miss out on making some good friends who are greatly impressed
with you. It's a nice way to start a friendship or a relationship
as you both have made a declaration for each other and it can be
a very powerful process. Even if you are not greatly attracted to
someone who has chosen you they may, as a good new-found friend,
recommend you to some of their friends, one of whom may just
prove to be the right one for you - so be open to possibilities.
Since
we finish around 8.45 pm everyone can stay back and have a dinner
together as many do. If you get a match, or if you wish to stay
back with the group and chat more, you can order a meal here,
together.
What
to do if you get a match: swap phone numbers, arrange a coffee
date within days straightaway, (have an idea as to where in
mind), stay back and have a drink or meal together or go off
together. The keen ones don't have dinner beforehand but have
dinner with their match, who hopefully, in anticipation, hasn't
had dinner either: an instant dinner date! If you get more than
one match this may not work – but that creates an interesting
problem for you so just stay back with the group and organize
matters discreetly.
A
recent email and it’s response which may be of interest:
Comment:
Speed dating to me is the event that can be the most anxious
making out
of
all your events ... especially if it does not go well. To me the
restaurant
event is not stressful compared to speed dating.
Response:
Many women have described the restaurant nights as
"non
confrontational".
Speed dating of course is, it is the embodiment of it.
No
wonder the people who tend to come to each tend to be
fairly
different.
How
might it not go well?, no matches? You can still check
on
secondaries
or have me send a special email the next day to any of the
guys.
New wording about this is is now up on the speed dating site.
Then
again it may be good that it "does not go well" because
to get a
match
you have to make a selection, at least one, and if there's no
one
there
you fancy you would not pick anyone and so, of course, you
would
get
no matches and you would know that that was happening so in
that
case
you would not worry that it "did not go well".
WHAT
TO DO IF YOU GET A MATCH
What
to do if you get a match: swap phone numbers, arrange a coffee
date within days straightaway, (have an idea of where in mind),
stay back and have a drink together. The keen ones don't have
dinner beforehand but have dinner with their match, who
hopefully, in anticipation, hasn't had dinner either: an instant
dinner date! If you get more than one match this may not work so
you are advised just to swap phone numbers with your matches and
stay back and chat with the group and arrange to meet each match
later.
At
this new venue you will be able to have an instant dinner date
with your new match as dining is open till 9.30 pm so you may
have a very interesting time - or you might just decide to have
dinner there so come hungry for love and food and be willing to
encourage interested parties to select you and have dinner with
you there and then or later. If you get just one match it is
better to continue on for an instant dinner date there and then
or at least swap phone numbers and have a drink together unless
you or they are in a hurry to leave.
For
more details and some interesting write ups on some recent nights
visit the special bonus website at Speed
dating and Matchmating Events website at mm.html.
Bookings
to David on 8214 8397 or 0419 605 365. To see up to the minute
real-time bookings for this event click
here. If numbers are low or are still building then book in
early and it will attract others to book in.
To
find on the map type the address, 68 Victoria Rd. Rozelle, into
http://maps.google.com.au/
To get there by public
transport check out
www.131500.info.
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Work
off the question sheet, which you get to keep, or bring your own
questions or just chat on the night.
Room
for only the first 12 girls and first 12 guys.
Times:
Mondays: 7.00 - 9.00pm.
Ring
David now on 8214 8397 or 0419 605 365 to book in.
For
other more discreet events on other nights of the week where you
can meet other people wanting to find new partners and friends
over dinner click here
for a summary of other events.
To
learn some dating skills and how to increase your chances of
being selected go to ft1dating.html
and
to
learn how to start a safe formal full on relationship from day
one of the relationship with a relationship agreement go to
ft1ra.html
For
links to the major local Internet Dating websites with large
numbers of new people to meet where you can join for free and put
up a profile for free and receive email contacts for free click
here.
For
the very popular dinner events etc. in detail click
here
The
Love Lotto selection process central to our speed dating nights
allowing for the unique instant discovery of the matches on the
night is the intellectual property of David Murphy as of 2000 and
its design on the slips is copyright.
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